When you heal this relationship, you heal
all other relationships

Our first relationship is the relationship with our mother. We learn from her what love means. She is our goddess and our heroine. Our physical, emotional and mental development is shaped by the experiences we are exposed to with our mother. If we have to deal with an emotional unavailable, toxic or abusive Mum in the prenatal and early childhood stages, we learn that people we love are emotional unavailable, toxic and abusive. The impact on future relationships later in life is enormous.

This course is PERFECT for you, if you

  • Feel quickly neglected, unappreciated or unseen in relationships

  • Can't really trust anyone

  • Can't accept help and have to do everything alone

  • Can't set boundaries and are overpowered by others

  • Can't get involved and find the right partner

  • Can't stand closeness or intimacy and push the other person back

  • Think you are not good enough or doing something wrong in relationships

  • Keep falling back into the same destructive relationship patterns over and over again

Healing the relationship with your mother is not as complicated as you think

I will guide you step by step through a process that will allow you to create an inner stability that will change this and all other relationships for the better. My behaviour towards the people close to me has changed fundamentally since I healed the relationship with my mother. I no longer rebel against people and I have stopped trying to please people, which leads to honesty, respect and good communication.If I can do it, you can do it too.

Your learned programming can be transformed

Your mother's behaviour in the past influenced how you think today about love and intimate relationships. In this course I will provide the right tools for you to let go of negative emotions and to change sabotaging beliefs. A new way of dealing with your mother and thus with every person who comes close to you can be learned.

This course is all you need

To thrive in your relationships whether you are having difficulties with the person you love or are looking for a partner and can't seem to find one. Isn't it time to regain security and confidence when it comes to close relationships?


"Working with Anja has definitely contributed to the happiness I feel today and every day. I have become successful in my personal as well as my professional life. The techniques she uses are simple but precise, they contain great wisdom and she masters applying them with the greatest efficiency. I recognise she is a rare healer who genuinely wants her clients to be free of pain and suffering and makes sure she gets results accordingly. She is both professional and warm. A combination which makes me feel human, worthy and seen in her presence."

A. F.

"I want to thank you for your powerful and supportive work. It has really offered me so much healing and growth, I am so grateful. There have been many wonderful developments as well as challenges, however, I feel I am on an exciting path and learning to trust myself and the process more and more :-)"

M. G.

"It seems I'm doing better & better everyday, THANKS TO YOU! Can't say THANK YOU enough time .... I still have a long way to go, but I simply want to express my gratitude for having found you."

Course curriculum

  • 1


    • A message from your instructor

    • Before you go...

    • Next steps

  • 2


    • Tapping / Emotional Freedom Techniques

    • Logosynthesis

    • Emotion Code Technique

    • Tapping and Meditation to get you started

    • Meditation

    • Assignment until 10 January 2022

  • 3

    MODULE 1: Safety First

    • Tapping and Meditation to make you feel safe

    • Meditation to make you feel safe

    • Assignment until 17 January 2022

  • 4

    MODULE 2: My Needs Matter

    • Tapping and Meditation to become aware of your needs

    • Meditation to become aware of your needs

    • Assignment until 24 January 2022

  • 5

    MODULE 3: Learning To Say 'NO'

    • This lesson will be available shortly after the live session, which will take place on January 24.

  • 6

    MODULE 4: Learning To Forgive

    • This lesson will be available shortly after the live session, which will take place on January 31.

  • 7

    MODULE 5: I Am Ready For Love In My Relationships

    • This lesson will be available shortly after the live session, which will take place on February 7.

  • 8

    MODULE 6: I Am Worthy Of Love

    • This lesson will be available shortly after the live session, which will take place on February 14.

  • 9

    MODULE 7: I Chose You As My Mother

    • This lesson will be available shortly after the live session, which will take place on February 21.

What is included?

  • 8 Live Sessions

    Every Monday at 20.00 from 3rd of January to 21st of February via Zoom. The sessions will be recorded and available no later than two days later.

  • 2 One-On-One Coaching Sessions (each 30 min.)

    After the second module you have the possibility to book your individual sessions with me. This is your chance to dissolve even inherited or prenatal blockages.

  • Personal Access For Individual Questions

    I will answer your questions during the course and will help you move on if you get stuck.

  • Community

    Often we think that we are the only ones who struggle with our mother and/or others. You will quickly realise how important it is to have a community of people who are having difficulties with the same issue. The group live sessions will give you strength and support. This is priceless.

  • Assignments

    You will be given a small task after each live session to reinforce what you have learned and continue the process at home.

Your Guide

Anja Hertkorn

If I hadn't healed the relationship with my mother, my relationships would still be a disaster. As an energy therapist and psychotherapist for over 20 years, I know that healing the relationship with one's mother is crucial for people facing relationship difficulties. The methods I use such as EFT, Emotion Code, Energy Medicine, meditation and others have helped my clients and myself bring peace and love to complicated relationships.